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Some call it narcissism or arrogant, I call it loving something other’s hate. Looking in the mirror and telling yourself you are pleased with you is necessary at times. Telling yourself you are beautiful does not require an approval from a world, I remain non apologetic if you really have a problem with this. OJB

 We all are beautiful because God created us in his image.  Insecurity is shaped by society and people around us.  I want you to understand that it is acceptable to say it out loud. "I am beautiful!"  I rock my natural and am very confident in my own skin.  Looking for perfection and wanting acceptance is a real problem.  Why should someone validate you, when you can not even validate yourself.   It took a 60 years old to look at herself and feel confident with her image in the mirror.   Honestly it is important for you to look in that mirror, look again, and again at that image you are not comfortable with because someone did some unimaginable thing to you or said something to you.You are trapped into your own guilt.   Not worthy, not good enough, and always a victim, stop that foolishness, you are awesome, worthy, and great!
I remember when I was a teen weighing 120-130 pounds and I thought I had a real problem.    I wanted to vomit every time I ate because people around me keep saying they were fat and I thought it was normal to hate your body and yourself.   I hated looking into the mirror and I was so insecure I would contemplate surgery all the time.   I drew lots of attention because of my curves, but I was not comfortable with my imperfections, blemishes, scars, and stretch marks.   As I begin to aged I learned that it  was ok  to be in my own skin.   Now after having three children I don't feel much need to go down that perfectionist world to be what others think I must be.  I just put my clothes on and proudly go out-mystretch marks signifies my motherhood, the loose skin does not hurt me, and I love my short hair.   Never try to live up to someone standard be you and be proud.   Love yourself like noone else.

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