Step 1 Freedom

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…12I wish that those who are troubling you would even mutilate themselves. 13For you were called to freedom, brethren; only do not turn your freedom into an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. 14For the whole Law is fulfilled in one word, in the statement, "YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF."…
I came to understand my path to freedom is to understand our life's experiences are not just about me, women are emotional flawed. Women think they can say, do , and what ever they want.  I must say searching for a fairy tale or placing unrealistic expectations on your companion is the worse mistake women can make. I shared my journal to help you understand everyday challenges like our work, the kids, friends, and other stresses can create a unrealistic fantasy .  I am walking Into a new season, free from the fictional world I have created for myself. I begin to seek God for the answers to life's everyday challenges and demands. I asked him to help me as the helpmate to give my husband the very best of me even when I was cursed with slaveman's mentality
- trapped and shackled to the chains of HOW I FEEL!

I love my husband dearly and he is so awesome in so many ways. I thank God he is not me and thinks so different because his views things in such a way. I moving forward, release, and let go of the chains that holds me captive. 

Loving your neighbor as you love yourself is God's plan for us, women. I want each women who reads this journal today to stop focusing on your husband and focus on yourself. Learn to embrace what you have never embraced before, leave your daily stressor, your painful past, your worst attitude and become the helpmate God created you to be. I am learning to love and love God's way. I have been transparent and today's focus is freedom. 

If you are struggling with pain of the past you will never truly appreciate your future. 

God I pray that you release the shackles from ever women that is so consumed with everyday stress and life. I pray that you give her wisdom to understand the pain, stress, financial deficits, and me, me, me is not an attitude of God. We were created in his image to help, love and embrace. Yes embrace, do it whole heartedly! Let go of your past embrace in love. I pray that women will be become women of higher standards and never let they daily stressor cause so much tension that they forget their role as a wife, of submission. 

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