OJ's journal to happiness

Women from the Palm Coast area will be gathering together this Sat to support one another.  What a wonderful way to bring in the Holiday by support and embracing one another.  We are hoping to bring the average women in and give her an experience like none other.  Women that are current business owners will help others understand the importance of branding and marketing your product and services by sharing their expertise and wisdom.  We hope to see you there to support women of every walk.

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After age 40 I never imaged my life to be as it is now. I dream big.  I stopped working for corporate America recently and I am taking a Hugh leap of faith.  I started to understand being a career mom and wife was not everything to me. My son graduates with a bachelor degree in May, my other son only has 4 years before he begins his journey.  My daughter needs me more than ever also.  I did not want my little ones to think my career came before them. They are like angels to me and I know my life will never be the same without them in my home. I have run successful businesses and watched our economy strip the life out of me, working day and night like a fool, my husband even worked to the point nothing made sense.  I had to turn my back to it all.  I have no health problems and don't rely on medication. My babies are growing so fast and my man is working so hard for his dreams to go to live television. He is a wonderful partner and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. Withi

God equips his people with all the necessities of life. He prepares the table before you in the presence of your enemy, your cup runneth over........  You have have to learn the importance of changing your language, stop making your family, spouse , or coworker responsible for your disgusting attitude. Learn to let go of pride and learn to love and embrace. God wants us to live a victorious life, full of faith, and love one another. Never live a fairy tail life and make your mate responsible for your happiness. It is foolish and unrealistic to put those weighs on anyone. All the past mistakes and your mess really is a bit much to share with your future. God said, "if you love me keep my commandments, " Live, love, and embrace.  Forgive, let go of the baggage that tried to destroy you , be good to one another,  and never place your actions on someone else, take responsibility for everything you do and teach others to walk in Godliness.  Ojay

Good morning everyone I know it has been a while since you heard from me. I have been doing fine, just a little busy with work, with my book, my husband's business, the children, and I sent my son off to Costa Rica. The 4 the off July was nice, we traveled to NC to be with my n laws. They fed us nicely. I need to slow down now I can feel the pounds on my thighs this morning. I will hit the gym next week although I have not even smelled a gym for 4 months.

Yesterday I had every intentions on leaving home at about 7 am, but for some reason I decided to do something I never do , I text all my friends a message to tell them how I loved them . People closest to me know that I have been in labour for a while. I am ready to push this blessing out, but it seems like my timing means nothing. My husband decided I was going to drive his van instead of the Mercedes so he it to clean it, gas it up, wash the car, then put air in the tires- he went to the gas station 4 times in order to delay my trip, something in his spirit was saying stall her a little longer. I was a little concerned at him making me late, but I said nothing, my intentions was to leave early get to the other side of Jacksonville to beat the heavy rain.  My dearest friend, like a sister prayed for my protection that morning before Ieft the house. Everyone I texted sent me a message back to let me know they loved me, interesting enough at 6:30 am. I sent a personal text to To

Just thought I would share what God showed me.  Using this visualization so that you can witness me moving up the mountain. I have been climbing for 7 years. Death hit hard, business went under, money decreased, I deceased as God increased me, we were robbed. Multiple things were stolen, but I witness God is moving mountains in my behalf and increase by 1000 fold. I pray God release his hands on you and me today, touch, anoint, heal, release, and let go.  Satan has no authority.

I fell in love with an amazing  man.  He is so silent when times get tough, but not somolent when I need him to verbalized the strategy to overcome.  He leads his household through the storms. He hold and embrace with his large chest and arms. He protects like no other. He kisses so nicely, inviting, and more. He is the very best father in the world. He loves hard and gives more. He encourages. He cherish the women that lays beside him every night. He is the most creative person I know. He is smart. He is spiritual. He is full of wisdom.  He is my best friend.  He is my lover He is devoted and so trusting.  He cares when no one else does. I have found a man that lives and breath within my heart and I can not truly tell you what this love is all about, but I hope you will someday experience a special kind of love for yourself.  Happy Father's Day!  Check out more through www.littleo.biz,theggcomic.blogspot.com

http://www.mydoterra.com/nubiannatural/ I have to share this with you all Doterra oils have changed my life.  I have never experienced a certified therapeutic grade oil that reaches my blood stream within seconds.  I have used oils for years, but non can match the benefits of doterra oil, region specific, and 6 times the potency of any oil I have every tried.  I shared my On Guard oil blend with the nursing home residents to prevent and reduce the spread of infection.  I wish you could have seem all of them light up.  The oil penetrated and the aroma was so pleasant.  I am using the purest form of Frankincense from Oman to help restore vision for my husband whom has been under a tremendous amount of eye strain from prolong use of the computer. I also need some instance cell regeneration and gave a friend some DDR - to  help improve blood flow and circulation to my friend, whom was experiencing mental fatigue and peripheral edema.  I am super excited about my oils and my daughter h

http://ewaters02.wix.com/4roc Okay I want to offer an opportunity of a life time.  My friend and owner of this business opportunity works for an Fortune 500 company.  She begin working as a customer service call center intake person for life insurance and now she has moved her way right into management.  She wants to share her experiences, secrets to you learning the basics,  and moving your way up into the corporate ladder.  Companies like ATT and more are always looking for customer services telephonic representatives and there might be an opportunity that may fit your needs. You may never be asked to  leave your home. Check out the site and let Evelyn know her friend OJay referred you. 

Yes this is Jim Carey 20 years younger, boy does he have a nice smile. I always wondered how much he paid for it. Just playing around today, in my OJ mood, I am chilling and relaxing even though I have one million things to do.  My stinky dog wants me to scratch her butt and I want her to move so I can eat my watermelon and talk with my hubby. Well I hope Tracy Morgan is going to be ok, the car accident left him in critical condition. God be with Tracy.  I am sorry from jumping from the dog to a whole nother conversation, but my mind is all over the place.

This is my season to live, love and to pursue happiness. Most of you don't know my painful past, but I am going to be very transparent. I endured multiple obstacles in my life I was bullied, abused, both physically and physically, but I refuse to accept the misfortunes that almost destroyed me. I pray for God's Devine mercy, grace,  and favor to help me see my way through each moment. I regret nothing, everything that happened to me had a purpose. The purpose was for me to understand things outside of myself. I live to love, I love to live, and I hope to inspire you. Today if you have an overcoming experience please comment and share your thoughts. Let me know you have read my journal and let's help someone else going through the storms of life. Smile, let go, and let God!

Well today is another beautiful day that The Lord has made. I am rejoicing with my cup of Java in the sun with my favorite person. He is sharing his dreams and prayer. I am not much company in the morning because Sleeping beauty requires 10 hours easily. It just takes a good moment for me to get up and moving.  I move so much that when I slow down I give myself permission to relax,  and my body is so content not moving. I think we all can benefit from some Quiet time. Today relax your mind, focus your energy on something good, and have a fantastic day! I am going to mediate , read my word, and pray.

options fullscreen Alone Maya Angelou ,  1928  -  2014 Lying, thinking Last night How to find my soul a home Where water is not thirsty And bread loaf is not stone I came up with one thing And I don’t believe I’m wrong That nobody, But nobody Can make it out here alone. Alone, all alone Nobody, but nobody Can make it out here alone. There are some millionaires With money they can’t use Their wives run round like banshees Their children sing the blues They’ve got expensive doctors To cure their hearts of stone. But nobody No, nobody Can make it out here alone. Alone, all alone Nobody, but nobody Can make it out here alone. Now if you listen closely I’ll tell you what I know Storm clouds are gathering The wind is gonna blow The race of man is suffering And I can hear the moan, ‘Cause nobody, But nobody Can make it out here alone. Alone, all alone Nobody, but nobody Can make it out here alone.  To Maya Angelou My hearts cries because I will never meet you face to face. Your words add

Today I give you permission to stop what you are doing and relax. My schedule has been extremely busy lately and my body feels it, but I am on a small vacation now. I am sitting watching tv and thinking about the millions of things I should be doing. I stayed up till 12 midnight last night trying to complete my assignment, I must pack and prepare for our travel to the Gullhah Festival. I am excited and can't wait to come back and share my praise report with you all. Relax and enjoy this beautiful day that The Lord has made, be glad and rejoice in him.

Seek ye the kingdom of righteousness and all things shall be added. Why do you put a capitation on God? He clearly has a real place of royalty prepared for you. It is a throne, a throne of glory! If I am going to this place he has prepared.  I want to invite you to follow, where I go ye may also go, where I have been I would never invite you to go, but look forward, look ahead , be confident,  and know your God will supply all your needs according to his riches and glory.

Lately, I have been extremely busy and it causes me to question certain things.  People may  think me sharing the inner core of me and my painful struggles of everyday life is crazy, but my transparency is going to provide hope to someone going through. I am allowing God to fine tune my clouded vision of my future.  I am really a queen and I married a king. My king has every intentions on giving me everything and some. He has already done that and much more. I love this journey with him. Everyday ups and downs makes it all worth it. People think it is easy, but being married to an artist has multitude of challenges.  I understand his love and passion.  I am so glad he selected me to watch him work his way right to the magical kingdom. He devote much of himself in everything he does. He challenges me and I am growing daily. I left my past pain and  disappointments to look forward to the future.  Be blessed and understand the road was not easy for the Cinderella either, she wor

Today I encourage you to creative some space in your busy schedule to focus on positive energy. Although, you may have been faced with a multitude of challenges. Clear your mind, mediate on positive energy, inhale the fresh oxygen, and exhale the excellence that was hidden from deep within your space.  Never allow all the negative energy to cloud your mind and dictate your creativity. 

I visited the nursing home,  in which I minister to every Sunday. I was not there to minister this time I actually on my job,  I arrived late, hoping to go in and come out because I had a long day and my work hours ended already at 5 pm and it was 6 pm.  The lady that I was looking for did not remember our last conversation but she remember my presence, she replied, "you are always so kind when I see you."    And then she explained she left the dinning room area because of the restless leg was bothering her. I walk with her as she wheeled herself slowly back to her room, in such discomfort. We talked and she was sad because I had no options to repatriate her back into the community.  She said it is said because she paid for her son's wedding and his wife refuses to visit or even care about her interest. She was moving very slowly and struggled to get back to bed. I was wondering to myself now if I was not there would she had fallen? She literally demonstrated a very unsaf

Grammy ® Award- nominated, Dove, Stellar, GMWA, NAACP Image Award-Winning Singer  Dottie Peoples  performed in front of a sold-out crowd Saturday May 3th at the 2013 Fellowship Luncheon in Orlando, FL, which benefits the Odessa Chambliss Quality Of Life Fund. Dottie moved the crowd with her spiritual uplifting songs of praise. She is a permanent blessing and supporter of the fund.  Odessa Chambliss was a nurse and she is the matriach of Lucille Oneal family and she is the grandmother to Shauille Oneal. Many of there family, friends, supporters, and loves attend this special event hosted byKim  Mcnair, who did a fantastic job planning this special event along side Lucille Oneal.   This yearly event offers an array of vendors opportunity to help network and empower other business ownership. The Odessa Chambliss fund / Quality Life Fund will provide hope to so many dealing cancer and I hope to see you there next. It was a pleasure to hang out with the Star 94.5 crew, including my good fri

How Trusting God Can Transform Your Life by Joyce Meyer For a long time, there was so much turmoil in my life. It really saddens me to think about all the years I wasted living this way. I was a Christian and went to church, but I spent a lot of time being upset about things I couldn’t do anything about, experienced feelings of guilt and condemnation much of the time, had no peace and just didn’t enjoy life. Thankfully, I’ve had a radical transformation. I’ve developed the habit of trusting God, and now life is really worth living. What It Means to Trust God Trusting God is simply believing that He loves you, He’s good, He has the power to help you, He  wants  to help you, and He  will  help you. Christians are called believers, but many times, we are more like unbelieving believers. We trust our friends, the bank, the stock market or the government more than we trust God and His Word. In John 15:5, Jesus says that apart from Him, we can do nothing. We need to lean on Him for help with

So you pray for peace and joy.  People just can't understand why they must suffer and die daily.   He revealed to me as I prayer for unspeakable joy that his son came here on earth and he suffered more pain than anyone could image.  His days on earth was not a walk in the park.  His joy was reduced by the suffering of the loss.

Transparency seems to hurt people around you, but let me tell you the truth about the transparent person who loves deep and falls hard. To be transparent, you open yourself up for ridicule and criticism, sad to say it does not feel so good to be criticized because you were open and honest. Well, I am learning a big lesson in life everyone does not need to know your deepest innermost pain. I find opening up and let the pain escape feels so good, but the repercussions of that pain do dissipate. It grows as an infection and creates wounds from deep within. I never wanted to be invisible because I knew my visibility would reach deep into the soul of the person I touched. As a child, I remember being so visible I was forced to hide. My seclusion was like being captivity on the ship. It was so hard for me to understand why I could not share God with the people around me. So I escaped to an imaginary world. I created my own circle and what I thought my life should be. I held the hands of the

Context Freedom in Christ … 12 I wish that those who are troubling you would even mutilate themselves.  13 For you were called to freedom, brethren; only do not turn your freedom into an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another.   14 For the whole Law is fulfilled in one word, in the statement, "YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF."… I came to understand my path to freedom is to understand our life's experiences are not just about me, women are emotional flawed. Women think they can say, do , and what ever they want.  I must say searching for a fairy tale or placing unrealistic expectations on your companion is the worse mistake women can make. I shared my journal to help you understand everyday challenges like our work, the kids, friends, and other stresses can create a unrealistic fantasy .  I am walking Into a new season, free from the fictional world I have created for myself. I begin to seek God for the answers to life's everyda

A Man’s Other Half We are told, by society, and, the Bible, that a woman completes a man. Well, depending on how that’s looked at, I have a problem with that. What needs to be asked is, What can’t a man be or do without a woman? For almost everything that a man gets from his woman, he can get from any of his friends: Somebody to talk to. Somebody to listen to. Somebody to laugh with. Somebody to cry with. Somebody to eat with. Somebody to starve with … etc. Any of the man’s friends or family, good-looking or not, tall or short, male or female, can be that to him. A woman can only logically be said to be a man’s missing other half, if having sex and/or making kids is the man’s primary objective. However, I would like to go as far as taking “having sex” out of the last sentence. For whether we like it or not, condone it or not, there are countless men who get to subdue their sexual urges from other men. In such cases, the anus plays vagina. The same can be said about wo

When the time comes, you find yourself seeking for an answer You need an answer to your future, is this the job for me, why am I financially not where I would like to be, are my children ok, is my spouse ok, where will I be tomorrow ,so many questions,  so many challenges....  I ask God to open up my heart so that all the insecurities be removed and transformed into security. God is the way, the truth, and the light. He has your life in his control, if it feels perplexed than you must take a moment and pray.  Pray for his will to be done in your life. Anxiety be released, Fear be released, Forces that seek to devour be released,  I command the atmosphere, the angels be released for my good. May the birds and fish of the sea understand my authority because God gave be permission to name them one by one. I command all mountains to be moved in his name. I pray that your what, when, and why be answered.

Labour is never an easy process. During the process you will experience sharp and intense pain. You find yourself wanting to push, but you understand premature pushing can lead to prolonging the  process. Are you in quest for a blessing don't delay  the blessing by your lack of faith , anxiety, and fear.. Trust God, Seek him,  pray , read your word, fast, mediate, and wait until he prepares you to receive your blessings.

 My name is Cindy I am not a princess or Queen. Most people think I am living in an imaginary fairy tale. Cinderella is not my name nor my fantasy. I am just plain old loving, caring Cindy. I marry a man but after I tell you the facts about my life and my story you will think I married Prince Charming. I come home from a hard day's work to a home where diner is fully prepared, house clean, laundry washed, put away, and the kids are already completed their homework. You would never imagine this man that does the things for me is black, intelligent, a hard worker, caring and loving. He reminds me of a Mandingo Warrior. He can handle the battles in the field, he knows how to claim his territory, and he comes home to receive the best of the best, his very own refuge. Wait ladies, I was not writing this to talk about him, but to help you explore your most intimate fantasy. Cindy is the lady next door to you. She is the women with  high intelligence, she works hard, she is a mother, a wi

4/19/2014   Happy Easter Jesus stands inside of our pain   A man went to court to fight for his rights that were violated while working for law firm for over 17 years. Because of the hostile conditions he dealt with while working for the firm, he become callus, and wanted to create the same pain the company gave him. This man was so anger envisioned neck of the manager that terminated his employment. In order help the law firm wins cases, he was very unethical and did anything and everything to support the firm.   This man had to rehash the pain he endured during the unfair conditions of his employment. The nasty facts would destroy his ex boss, but this man had to do it because he wanted to see justice served for the wrong he encountered from his company.   The filthy stories this man held on for years caused everyone around him to dislike the person he became. He never focused too much on what the company made him do and never thought much about the poor decisio

4/18/2014                                                      Pressure to meet the deadline  It creates more anxiety and fear from within yourself. Feeling trapped into meeting the deadline is the struggle we all encounter. Well, being married to an artist is the most challenging experience of my life. I can work for the master and take the beaten on the ship, but to be internally connected to a deadline and pressure is like being in a pressure cooker afraid of the top exploding. I am writing this because I begin this morning talking to God and I begin to weep because my focus at that moment was interfering with my praise. I had so many issues that need to be confronted. I begin to feel the most unimaginable thing ever, life is just not a fairy tale! God gives me strength! The artist I married has been so busy he could not hear my cry. After two weeks I begin to feel the pressure of the pot boiling water and I felt like something bad was going to happen. My timing was poor